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Monday, March 28, 2005

Change is constant

(my laziness and inability to come up with fresh materials for my blog is constant too... sigh...)

The only constant is change.
You, me, everyone changes from time to time, more often than not.
Some changes are more significant than others.
Anyway... a couple that changes and grows together, stays together.
If the couple grows and changes in separate directions, then it becomes harder...
Not impossible, but needs work to bring them back together...
It applies to other relationships too, whether it be friendships or family relations etc.
If one believes that the relationship is important then one has to work at it.
Then again, on the other hand, if only one side is putting in all the effort, and the other party isn't doing anything (or diverging farther away), there might come a point when you need to let go.
Letting go is one of the hardest things to do... it's easier to assign blame, even to oneself. But what does that achieve?
Letting go doesn't mean giving up hope. Put the hope on something/someone else. There are many things or persons more deserving of one's time and energy, hopes and dreams.

My hope for everyone...
... to have the courage to love and accept love in return
... to have the courage to chase your dreams
... to have the courage to let go when needed
... to have the courage to love and forgive yourself
... to have the courage to live life to its fullest

cybette wrote this at 03:54 AM
Comments

hehe

maybe i should have you as the "co-author" on my site! :D we can blog together, it'll be a bilingual one, gotta be the most unique blog ever!!

Posted by Gloria -- March 28, 2005 12:51 PM